We serve the community of San Marcos and this area. 9 0 obj Get to know them before the service. 0 0 =, - 0>_ j , ). This form presents all the steps to be done at a funeral in order from general to specific. Funeral and Memorial Service Checklist Planning a funeral can be a very stressful and difficult task. Some parishes have a helpful checklist of things to be considered. 0000007018 00000 n 3. %PDF-1.4 % Honor your loved one with a free online memorial. suffered through long illnesses. >> /Parent 2 0 R Memorial services have become more prevalent as cremation has outpaced traditional burials in the U.S., a trend fueled by boomers' growing concern about the cost and environmental impact of burials coupled with a fall in religious affiliations. <>/ExtGState<>/XObject<>/ProcSet[/PDF/Text/ImageB/ImageC/ImageI] >>/MediaBox[ 0 0 612 792] /Contents 4 0 R/Group<>/Tabs/S/StructParents 0>> /Rotate 0 endobj It's often seen as easier not to have a memorial service or funeral, and it's certainly seen as a less expensive alternative. This link will open in a new window. This booklet will outline for you how to prepare for meeting the pastor, frequently asked questions, as well as steps you may want to think about after the funeral - practically, emotionally, and spiritually. Select a cremation container If cremation was chosen, select an urn or niche space and a cremation container. We will ask questions about your loved one in order to help you plan the most fitting tribute. /StructParents 2 Choosing funeral music, scriptures, prayers, and readings Organising transportation- for family and the deceased Organising flower arrangements Writing an obituary and submitting it to newspapers (If desired) Choosing a speaker for the eulogy Deciding on pallbearers Organising a wake or ceremony after the service (Location and catering) Most often, it's because of a personal relationship a person had . /Annots [] The pastor's designated assistant will help both you and him with details of planning the funeral. In this case, the doctrine may dictate what is said and done. 3 0 obj In most cases, it needs to be signed by a physician, who will also indicate the cause of death. endobj Any other use, such Choose an alternate location if you want to have the service outdoors in case of inclement weather. 0000005193 00000 n Question #4: Describe the last funeral service you've attended. If your loved one is ill, you may have time to locate any prearrangements before death. $.' Contact a funeral provider to help you create a plan that ensures your wishes will be followed. What You Need to Know about Anatomical Donation, What You Need to Know About Veterans Burial Benefits. /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] The law requires bodies that are not embalmed be buried sooner than bodies . Address at the time of death. /Creator (Canva) 0 . , j3 H $ j3 ( - j3 - h h 0 h h h h h c. c. l h h h . h h h h j3 h h h h h h h h h : FUNERAL CHECK LIST: Service planner c/o Worship Director and Officiating Pastor/Elder (to be written up after consultation with family of the deceased). frustration, what was meant to be a loving service can result in hurt feelings, damaged relationships and a poor image for your church. (Be careful of 0000067188 00000 n /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Verbally share your final wishes (but do not rely solely on verbal instructions, as loved ones may forget or disagree on what you said you wanted!). /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] endobj Decide who will perform the eulogy. Social Insurance. /Tabs /S >> Call the funeral director; Call the church office (585.271.6513); Call close friends or family who can provide personal support. This easy, step-by-step guide will help you manage the process during this trying time. >> <> After death, a Pastor of Coopersville United Methodist Church will meet with family Post-funeral pastoral care: Put on the elder agenda a follow up with the family of the deceased 3-6 months after the funeral.The following checklist items also apply if funeral visitation/service is held at New Hope Church: Schedule use of facility for visitation/service Designate (deacon) in charge of service for unlocking/locking building, receiving floral deliveries etc. endobj << 9 0 obj %PDF-1.5 0000005442 00000 n /Rotate 0 wExHv=)\K>o/M($ 0000002134 00000 n << 1 0 obj /Annots [] this stance. Size: 350.1 KB. 3. To contact a pastor, call the church office at (615) 383-1815 . This may not be the case if a religious leader is asked to perform the ceremony. {3}2sERc]2N4.UlAFf7a$B(*,\B'#/kJ%9xH"RAh)IZv`pQ/E0a-*Y!nf*w9)#&UXYf!r%j,YpJ*#,mMD)Ma556wXmLDr[qx}0|'p=# WL^WAQaP>ZPb^-.rIA#`Vx"4? <> %PDF-1.7 endobj /Tabs /S endobj As Christians we believe that God in Christ has conquered death. Cars - for relatives and close friends Casket type The checklist includes 3 of the most important funeral planning stages: The first 24 hours: The first steps are meant to be taken within the first 24 hours after a loss. 21 0 obj Determine what time family will arrive for visitation and services, ensure coordinator is onsite at those times Notify custodian and impacted ministry leaders of funeral arrangements Notify Alsip Police dept of planned funeral--708-385-6902 Easel/s or table provision for photo collage of deceased (if requested) Boxes of tissue Musicians: Soloist/s; pianist; worship team (if requested) Ushers and parking attendants Canned music during the viewing (if requested) AV technician (if canned music is requested, must be present to play music; must be present during the memorial service). 11 0 obj /Contents 52 0 R 6. 5 0 obj 8 0 obj This form was developed by Pastoral Care Inc. This decision will determine the timing of many decisions you make. 1 0 obj 10 0 obj Lastly, well cover any final steps to take to ensure the funeral runs smoothly for everyone. endobj Here's a structure for a short, but meaningful service that covers the "Four Rs" of a good memorial service: Recognize the death, Remember the person, Reaffirm beliefs and Release the spirit. endobj ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. A good funeral requires the sensitivity and comfort only a minister can provide. The need for a fitting way to remember a departed loved one and say goodbye is universal, even among the non-religious. Twitter. 02. The Funeral or Memorial Service is normally held in church, cemetery, chapel or the funeral home. /Type /Page Support the grieving family by surrounding them with caring friends, co-workers, and neighbors. /Annots [] <> 0000001569 00000 n homecoming ceremony. If there is an /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Letting your members use church facilities for special family events is one of the ways your Download. /Type /Page /Tabs /S Most will provide the cash to pay for your funeral but don't include any funeral planning options. Plan the type of funeral service you will be having. 0000031717 00000 n endobj Getting all the necessary information upfront and making sure to ask the right questions helps /Annots [] /Type /Page Where do you begin, and how do you make sure you dont overlook anything important? <> Delegate this to someone in charge. We will ask questions about your loved one in order to help you plan the most fitting tribute. /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 8 % . A A L h h h =. endobj This link will open in a new window. While theres no such thing as one-size-fits-all, its a strong starting point no matter where youre at in the planning process. /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] endobj sudden" for many family members. /Annots [] /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] endobj Copyright 2022 Pastoral Care Inc. All Rights Reserved. A minister will be standing at the head of the open casket. 0000004257 00000 n Give them your card and ask them to call if they need you. In some cases you will want to use both of these types of scriptures. 13 0 obj These days, many funeral homes offer to host a reception after a funeral as part of a package, and even have special rooms for such large gatherings. Provide a short message, such as reading Psalms 23 and sharing additional words of comfort. /Tabs /S stream /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Accommodating the public when they ask to use your church is not only a service but an outreach to the community. Full article can be viewed and printed with Word or PDF formats at the links 0000009198 00000 n Read on to find additional resources for each topic. /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] All material is intended for /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Lay out the order of the wedding ceremony. /Resources 43 0 R members and their relatives or friends form a special bond with your church. located at the bottom of this page. /Annots [73 0 R 74 0 R 75 0 R] Tell them who you are in case they are not all familiar with you. /Annots [] Checklist for Church Events, Equipment Rentals, Weddings, and Funerals Events Checklist Letting your members use church facilities for special family events is one of the ways your members and their relatives or friends form a special bond with your church. The responsibility of funeral planning can be challenging, but Dignity Memorial professionals have extensive experience working with people in the midst of grief. /Annots [] 0000119281 00000 n By planning your service in advance you can design and specify the exact type of service you'd like, so that your friends and family celebrate you as you wish. Feel free to add readings and play music that reflects the spirit of the person who died to add depth and emotional impact. /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Producer (Canva) /Rotate 0 1 0 obj /CreationDate (D:20230223200201+00'00') Luncheon: If the deceased is an immediate family member of a church member, the church will provide a funeral luncheon if the family desires. Provide materials/books on grieving if needed. /Type /Page ",#(7),01444'9=82. /Resources 37 0 R >> After death, a Pastor of PCOC will meet with family members and review your worksheet to form the funeral or memorial service. jrhL zb7K[4= PRQoitGf[SO T}sozi 4Zub%MO T=^gL|Z=m~v \wO3i biT\,i 4\/{ ^Y=4 ?:='0z ,E_nON{> Viz>MO }iDp} LrTi t}vqb |bz h- JoN1LO d4 ZE>Z$=m= h?IL h)O4 'i{i 4(zar6 ~1mo#z n0T |e4 D6rzZ=mTO =:9sZ1mocz k2{r @)gs1UO w^-i pB*ux = fMf1XO Km= 3qk=- 4w4 L>Y/4 . subject to our Terms of Use. <> Lock in the date. This is why many churches have chosen Many users would be better served consulting an attorney than using a do-it-yourself online A short message at the cemetery is customary. >> These may be during times of disasters, senseless A good funeral requires the sensitivity and comfort only a minister can provide. /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Keep in mind when writing a eulogy that it doesn't have to be perfect; it is meant to be a touching tribute to a loved one. trailer Funeral pre-planning with final expense insurance is one of the most trusted ways to help your family with funeral costs. to avoiding a negative outcome. /Contents 46 0 R Download the full guide below to begin funeral planning with confidence. /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] This one-word brainstorm just may . Prepared by Nila Dimangondayao Version 5 DATE \@ "M/d/yyyy" 6/11/2019 TIME \@ "h:mm:ss am/pm" 3:04:06 PM Page PAGE 1 of NUMPAGES 2 ) 9 > V FUNERAL CHECK LIST: Service planner c/o Worship Director and Officiating Pastor/Elder (to be written up after consultation with family of the deceased). /Parent 2 0 R The Pastor normally encourages you to consider the church. Find someone to help . lives to Christ. /Filter /FlateDecode What Should I Know When Considering Cremation? /Type /Page Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information, Clothing, including undergarments (these items will be used to dress your loved one if you are planning a viewing or prefer special clothing for a cremation or casket burial), Eyeglasses and jewelry (these items may remain with your loved one or be removed and returned after the service), A recent photograph (for cosmetic purposes, if a viewing is planned), Military discharge papers (for a veteran, if applicable), Names and contact information for 6 to 8 pallbearers, if applicable, A collection of approximately 30 photos we can use to create an Everlasting Memorial digital archive and a multimedia scrapbook, Marital status and surviving spouses name, if applicable, Veterans discharge papers (DD-214), if applicable, Mothers full name, including maiden name, Highest level of education and occupation. Check your calendar to make sure it all works with your schedule write it down somewhere so you won't forget. These are practical, essential steps to inform others and set a strong foundation. /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] <> If you want a funeral planner that can do the necessary work for you, ensure that you are focused on prioritizing what is essential for the funeral program. /Tabs /S <> 14 0 obj /Annots [] endobj Allow the Holy Spirit to guide you along the way. endobj /Annots [] /Type /Page /Annots [] If you are not familiar with the person you are conducting the service for, get to know them. /Type /Page 0000031260 00000 n The law requires bodies that are not embalmed be buried sooner than bodies that are embalmed. endobj endobj Let's talk about your loved one's life; share some stories with us. They are searching for comfort. /Tabs /S Weep with them. /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] No one wants to undergo a tiring process. 0000002413 00000 n But if you are planning the reception, you can choose to have it anywhere; there are no set rules as to the location. 5 0 obj /StructParents 0 /Parent 2 0 R /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 7 0 obj New pastors often feel uncomfortable and unsure whether their words will bring comfort. can do this by standing and using your hands to signal for congregation to stand and when to sit down. >> 17 0 obj /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Type /Page /Parent 2 0 R /StructParents 2 /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /StructParents 1 /Parent 2 0 R endobj Allow them to share /StructParents 2 If you are paying for services at the time of need, you can ask family members to help pay for different parts of the funeral or to contribute in different ways, such as bringing food or sending flowers. /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] People grieve differently. 2109 Luann Lane- Madison, Wisconsin 53713 Phone: 608-661-3678 1650 East Huebee Parkway-Beloit, Wisconsin 53511 Phone: 608-368-8143 Vital Statistics Record . /StructParents 0 If the service is to be held in a church and led by anyone other than the pastor of . Any other use, such as distribution, promoting one's ministry or adding to websites, is prohibited unless written permission sudden" for many family members. endobj Make sure both video projectors are on (if congregational singing is led by worship team). Choose Disposition Method Facebook. Choose the type of disposition you'd like: Burial Cremation Green burial (eco-friendly) If more than one minister conducts the service with you, allow them to give scripture, recite a /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] >> /Parent 2 0 R '03~I=Rv@ ma8 Verbally share your final wishes (but do not rely solely on verbal instructions, as loved ones may forget or disagree on what you said you wanted!). Decide on scripture readings that either meant something to the person who died or that you think will bring. /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] <>/ExtGState<>/XObject<>/ProcSet[/PDF/Text/ImageB/ImageC/ImageI] >>/MediaBox[ 0 0 612 792] /Contents 4 0 R/Group<>/Tabs/S/StructParents 0>> /Title (Planning a Loving Funeral) Hospitality crew is available for kitchen use. the deceased, this will help you get a better idea of who the person was and give you materials for your message. /Tabs /S /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Resources 47 0 R /Parent 2 0 R /Type /Page /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Tabs /S /Resources 29 0 R With over 1,900 locations, Dignity Memorial providers proudly serve over 375,000 families a year. /Version /1.4 /Rotate 0 27 0 obj /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] For information about opting out, click here. /Resources 35 0 R Letting your members use church facilities for special family events is one of the ways your 1. to the family. >> /StructParents 2 >> /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] % But on top of these basic expenses, you will need to plan for the burial plot cost and casket price (or the urn cost if you choose cremation), a headstone, and flowers for the funeral or memorial service. 10 0 obj t6_>P ;jz {]gWMO {swoMOZC @[5=?/> 4OV bC @zMO{= ^.UkzkO C51moO' q=4 8}={X-> 4; !9]> 4;t}u\ \)io> 4l*u}P> 41mo_| C{j @C{7z /N @yvrhO{h X2^y}O {o4 E= #T @i{K> @`3 =-{|X } Z |Z.+w4 zL&S^/^ c{Z.[ VW4= >|n{ |nmi 4ccBmlll?i O)iz }fa{Z_N PQf===S 0000119536 00000 n Funeral Planning Checklist . /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Rotate 0 /StructParents 4 When planning your funeral, or a funeral for a loved one, there are many choices to make. From personalized menus to unique mementos, find all the inspiration needed to create an unforgettable tribute in our free guide Imagine. >> Complete a funeral planning guide. Undertaker will be informed of his responsibility as part of the funeral service. 4 0 obj >> This worksheet may be used by: an individual making their advance plans known, or a family planning the funeral of a loved one nearing death or recently deceased. xtX{fgmKm9IVN(A")FIsFb#&DDjhnt ,+TP H[HDA -@m[l[l[l[l[l[lZtS"zX7?k7W|Dh5dE%[>x*z8+ 6 0 obj We have provided a basic outline in the worksheet section of this document. There are also separate sections for burials and cremations. @y[ Facing some of those choices now will make the process less demanding for your loved ones later. . /Type /Page The certificate then goes to the health department for registration and recording. This Funeral Planning Worksheet will lead you through a variety of decisions. 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